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Love usually ends in pain and hurt…but that doesn't mean that it’s not worth it.~~

18 April 2011

DO NOT OVER LOVE ANYTHING BUT GOD.



.. hehe .. narinig ko sa radio. Nakikinig kasi ako sa DWXI .. may nagpipreach. Tama siya. Di dapat mahalin ng over over ang mga bagay bagay at tao tao sa mundo. haha. Kasi nothing's permanent. Everything changes. Lahat nawawala. So it would cause too much pain and suffering. Pero di naman sinabi na wag tayong magmahal o pigilan natin ang sarili natin diba.


Isa lang naman ang dapat nating i-over love e.


--------------------------------------------> si GOD.
"Minsan, it's better for two people to break up so they can grow up. It takes grown ups to make relationships work." - Derek Ramsay, One More Chance


Grown up na ba ako?? Sa age siguro .. pero kung maturity ang pag uusapan hindi pa. Marami pa kong mami-meet. Hay. Pero alam mo yun .. nakakapagod. Di man dapat .. pero one day, I end up wishing na sana makita ko na siya para di na ko mahirapan pa. Na kung may pain man ayos lang kasi I know siya na rin naman talaga. And most of all, I want to meet that someone na para tumigil na ko kakaasa sa isang taong alam ko namang I could never get. Diba?? haiz.

So yeah .. it's better for two people to break up .. kasi kung di makikipag break yung lalaking para sa kin .. di magiging kami. hahaha.


"Kaya iniiwan tayo ng mga taong mahal natin kasi baka may bagong darating na mas ok, na mas mamahalin tayo. Yung taong di tayo sasaktan at paaasahin. Yung nag iisang tao na magtatama sa mga mali natin.... ng lahat ng mali sa buhay mo. "

Ok. A sensational line from Derek Ramsay at One More Chance.

Hay...kailangan ba talagang ganun? Di ba pwedeng di na lang sila umalis at mawala sa buhay natin? Bakit kasi kailangan pang iwanan tayo? Pwede namang hindi diba ... mas ok nga yun e. Bat ganun???

Di ako masyadong naniniwala na merong mas ok. Lahat ng tao unique .. and every person na magdadaan sa buhay natin ay may iba't ibang markang iiwan ... na kahit kailan di matutumbasan ng nauna sa kanya.

Kaya dapat ... di na lang nawawala .. dumadating na lang ang dapat dumating. Kaso ..wala e ... ganun talaga .. no choice kundi ang i-accept and sad fact na yun.
At 3 yrs "Mommy, I love you". At 10, "Mom whatever". At 16, "My Mom is so annoying". At 18, "I wanna leave this house". At 25, "Mom, you were right". At 30, "I wanna go to Mom's house". At 50, "I don't wanna lose my Mom". At 70, "I would give up EVERYTHING for my Mom to be here".

I have only one mom. She's everything .. I mean ..she's the best for me. If I would be born again, I would like her to be my mom once again and forever. Words are not enough to say how much thankful I am for having her and how much I care and love her. On Wednesday, she will be celebrating her birthday .. I wish her everything that's best. :D
"When a girl is silent, it's pretty dangerous. She's either over thinking, tired of waiting, about to blow, lonely, in need of a hug, falling apart or crying inside. . and most probably all of the above."
Dear Future Boyfriend,

I’ve already come across many nice men, all of them gorgeous in their own way, but like you, I am still searching. I don’t think it’ll be too hard, because I don’t really demand too much- after all, I am not looking for Mr. Perfect, I am looking for Mr. Right. Physically, you may be the simplest man in the room, but there has to be that certain something about you that I find charming. It will be nice, of course, if you have positive attitude and an interesting personality. I hope that you can be understanding and supportive of the things I do and the things that are important to me. It will be great if you can make me laugh! There are no dull moments with someone that I know is funny. I want our relationship to be filled with excitement and surprises- I don’t want anything stagnant; I don’t want “just okay”. One of my weaknesses is the sweetness of a man. If you can find a way to cheer me up after a long bad day, that would really make me feel good. I will also appreciate if you text me sweet stuff. I’d like to wake up to a good morning message from you, and go to bed at the end of the day after hearing you say goodnight. Another thing you should know: I believe that the best relationships always start from friendship. I want to be able to talk to you, be silly with you, and simply hang out with you. I want you to value the “friend” part of being my boyfriend. I also want us to share each other’s life, and I don’t want everything to be just about the two of us. I want our relationship to extend to other aspects of our lives, including our friends, family, and most of all GOD. A relationship will last only if we accept both the good and bad things about each other. Despite all the criteria I’ve mentioned above, I want to make it clear that I don’t want you to change a single thing about yourself just to please me. Losing your identity and turning into someone completely different is not necessary. Relax, I already like you, and I like you for who you truly are. I am looking forward to meeting you, and I know that one of these days, I will. I trust that we’ll find each other soon, and when that time comes, I know you’ll prove to me that you were definitely worth to wait.


Your Future Girlfriend

matagal tagal pang kalbaryo. XD

one month na mamaya ... one month na simula nung huli kaming nag-communicate sa isa't isa. one month na kong walang pakialam sa kanya .. at one month ng sa tingin ko nakamove on na ko sa mga nangyari.

pero sabi nga nila .. ang moving on stage ay twice ng duration ng inyong bonding moments (di pwede ang word na 'relasyon' kasi wala naman kami nun e. hahaha!)

so kung 6 months kaming naging friends-and-enemies, ahh .. meron pa kong 5 months para maging fully recovered. hahaha!

sus .. di naman totoo yun .. ngayon pa lang naka-recover na ko no .. siguro di pa nga fully .. kasi nahuhurt pa rin ako pag naaalala ko yung mga last words niya nung araw na yun .. pero naman .. di na aabot ng 5 months pa no .. over.

hai ... wala lang. syempre di ko naman maiiwasang maalala diba ..pagbigyan niyo na ko. tayo lang naman nakakaalam e .. hahaha.

at least inaamin ko na naiisip ko siya kahit minsan .... at alam ko namang siya di niya na ako naaalala .. ayos lang. wala akong pakialam.


XD