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Love usually ends in pain and hurt…but that doesn't mean that it’s not worth it.~~

28 October 2011

Special moments on the bed.



People always think that when you sleep together, there’s always something that is happening in between the sheets and the bed. But let me tell you, It’s not always like that. The feeling of actually hugging each other until you fall asleep, the warmth of each other’s breath, and the total happiness in the morning when you wake up right beside them. Everything may sound so good to be true, but sometimes it takes a lot of responsibility and love to be able to be as wholesome as possible. Sleeping with your special someone is one of the most heartwarming experiences you’ll ever have. No nothing, simply hugging and smiling yourself to sleep.


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I've read this on Facebook. Well, this is what I have long been wishing for. To sleep with this special someone .. again. I remembered before, we used to be like this. We slept side by side of each other and we hug each other and then we'll wake up smiling because what we first saw is the face of the one we most love. I believe that if you two really love each other, when you are together in a bed, it doesn't necessarily mean you will be doing something physical. The fact that you're together feels like there's nothing against both of you, and that's what makes it so special. To feel comfortable, secured and loved, that's what we are looking for, and in simple ways like just sleeping together, no more, no less,.. that's incredible. 

To married people who experience some kind of misunderstandings, try to do what you used to do before .. like this one. I believe it would help. I know married couples are so used to sleeping together, but why not try to always make every night special and magical. Try to not just sleep but make that night memorable and lovable by telling your someone special how beautiful she is at night or how wonderful it is to be beside him. That's something we should not lack. Simple things make up big ones, so never ever hesitate to do it. 

To young people who are in a relationship, a bed is not something that when you see it, all you know that should have done on it is what married people do. Remember, love is immeasurable, and it can never ever be measured on how well you perform sexually. You are not yet married, and you are not legally accepted to do it. Well, try to change your mindset if you happen to think that beds are made for only two functions: sleep and sex. Make it more complex. You are not prohibited to stay together in a bed, as long as you know what do you do there. You could sleep together and prove everyone's wrong when they think you are immoral. You could just hug and feel each other's presence there, without being hot. 


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