Relationships fall and whither because eventually someone stops trying and it doesn't feel the same. The first couple of months or even years it may be the best thing you ever wished for, but eventually someone loses feelings, gets to busy, or doesn't even bother to try. You know why? Because they're comfortable. The beginning is all about the chase. Can you keep up? If you can then you'll get the hang of it and then you won’t want to try anymore. You aren't afraid to lose them because they're yours. Arguing leads to fighting and it just gets worse from there. It all flashes by so fast. So, cherish what you have.

So far so good naman ang aking buhay. Isang buwan at kalahati na akong di nakakaranas ng matinding depresyon. Umiyak man ako nitong nakaraang mga araw pero hindi na lumagpas pa ng 2 araw. Hindi rin sumagi sa aking isip na maglaslas o ano pa man. Magaan ang aking pakiramdam, hindi tulad noon na parang araw araw akong may problema. 

Siguro kasi ngayon natutunan kong mas i-appreciate ang mga magagandang bagay na nangyayari sa buhay ko. At ang pinakamahalaga ko pang natutunan ngayon ay ang wag pansinin ang mga taong naninira at gumugulo (sa di magandang paraan) sa buhay ko. Alam mo yun. Ang sarap ng feeling na malaya ka sa galit at poot. Na paggising mo sa umaga, magdadasal ka hindi dahil sasabihin mo kay Lord na natatakot kang harapin ang panibagong araw ng buhay kundi dahil magpapasalamat ka sa bagong pagkakataon para lumigaya at sumamba sa kanya. Na papasok ako sa paaralan ng di kinakabahan at naiinis sa mga taong nakikita ko, bagkus, excited pa kong makipagkwentuhan sa kanila at nakangiti akong papasok sa aming classroom. Na sa loob ng room eh hindi ako nakakaranas ng matinding pagod at hindi yung para akong may sakit. Yung lalabas ako ng paaralan na masaya at may ngiti sa labi. Na uuwi akong hindi pagod. Na may pagkakataon pa akong makipag-usap sa pamilya ko. Na di ako nagmamadaling gawin ang mga bagay dahil alam kong may sapat akong oras para gawin ang lahat ng yun .. di ako pressured. Na matutulog ako sa gabi, magdadasal na hindi puro hinanakit at sama ng loob ang isi-share ko kay God kundi kung gaano ako ka-thankful dahil binless niya ako ng sobra. Na sa pagpikit ng mata ko, walang mabigat sa dibdib ko kaya diretso ang tulog ko. 

Alam mo yun? Ang sarap ng pakiramdam na maging positibo sa buhay. Hindi ko naman sinasabing talagang laging positive ako. Sabi ko nga, ngayon ko pa lang ito natutunan at natututunan. May mga pagkakataon pa rin na nagiging nega ako, pero normal na bahagi naman yun ng buhay. Kasi kung overly positive naman hindi na rin maganda. Tsaka, hindi ko naman sinasabing wala na kong mga problema. May mga pagkakataon pa ring parang pagod na pagod na ko, na anlungkot ko, na ansama ng loob ko, na galit ako ... pero mas nami-minimize na yung mga ganung scenario ngayon. At kung magkaganun man, hindi na bayolente ang mga reaksyon ko.

HINDI NA GANITO NGAYON. :)))))

Ito ang nagagawa siguro ng may inspirasyon (naks naman! ako na talaga) at may masayang pamilya. Epekto din ito ng di pagpansin sa mga bagay na hindi naman makakatulong sakin para mag-grow. Basta ito lang masasabi ko. Ang sarap mabuhay. Kung noon gusto ko ng mamatay, ngayon ... hindi naman ako natatakot mamatay pero mas ok pa rin ang extended ka ... mas marami pang magagawa at pwedeng maranasan. :)))

The first to apologize is the bravest. 
The first to forgive is the strongest. 
The first to forget is the happiest.

When we feel being poisoned by stress, pressure, pain and failures: the best ANTIDOTE is to PRAY. Nothing more, nothing less...:)

Whatever the situation may be.. Don't ever be cold to someone you care about.. Indifference and unanswerable questions hurts more... than angry words...

So me! LOL

Jesus and Satan competed on the
computer.
They started typing. They did reports, e-mails,
attachment s and downloads.
But before the time was up,
Brownout came!
Satan cursed.
Jesus sighed.
When electricit y was back,
Satan lost everything he had
done.
But Jesus started
printing all His files.
Satan shouted:
YOU CHEATED!
Jesus just smile. because He did what Satan
didn't know.
HE SAVES. :)

I love my relationship with my BED. No commitment needed. We just sleep together EVERY NIGHT. ♥

All Has Its Purpose

Me: God, can I ask You a question?

God: Sure

Me: Promise You won't get mad

God: I promise

Me: Why did You let so much stuff happen to me today?

God: What do u mean?

Me: Well, I woke up late

God: Yes

Me: My car took forever to start

God: Okay

Me: at lunch they made my sandwich wrong & I had to wait

God: Huummm

Me: On the way home, my phone went DEAD, just as I picked up a call

God: All right

Me: And on top of it all off, when I got home ~I just want to soak my feet in my new foot massager & relax. BUT it wouldn't work!!! Nothing went right today! Why did You do that?

God: Let me see, the death angel was at your bed this morning & I had to send one

of My Angels to battle him for your life. I let you sleep through that

Me (humbled): OH

GOD: I didn't let your car start because there was a drunk driver on your route that would have hit you if you were on the road.

Me: (ashamed)

God: The first person who made your sandwich today was sick & I didn't want you to catch what they have, I knew you couldn't afford to miss work.

Me (embarrassed):Okay

God: Your phone went dead bcuz the person that was calling was going to give false witness about what you said on that call, I didn't even let you talk to them so you would be covered.

Me (softly): I see God

God: Oh and that foot massager, it had a shortage that was going to throw out all of the power in your house tonight. I didn't think you wanted to be in the dark.

Me: I'm Sorry God

God: Don't be sorry, just learn to Trust Me.... in All things , the Good & the bad.

Me: I will trust You.

God: And don't doubt that My plan for your day is Always Better than your plan.

Me: I won't God. And let me just tell you God, Thank You for Everything today.

God: You're welcome child. It was just another day being your God and I Love looking after My Children.

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I remembered last week, I was a bit upset when a friend of mine wasn't able to meet up with me as we have planned. In a text message, he said that, "All has it's purpose". I absolutely agree with this, but that time, I thought he was just using those words to calm me down. But then, as I have read the above conversation a while ago, I realized that God is really good. That He has wonderful plans for us. We may have planned a lot of things which for us are the best things but then, God has a lot more sensible aims for us. 

SINGLE ♥

What's wrong with being single? 

Valentine's Day is fast approaching. From the time February 1 appeared from the calendar, I have read a lot of posts in Facebook, tons of text messages and undying chitchats about the said event. And what's the common denominator of them all? It's the "I'm single in the heart's day" topic.

I wonder why there are a lot of single bitter people around. Why can't they (ahem, can I exclude myself? But I admit that I am one of those. LOL) just pick up someone like them and be partners. That way, no one will be lonely, especially on Valentine's Day. Well, how I wish it's that easy. But that's the magic of love. Even if there are many available guys around, your heart just beats for a special someone.

If everyone has their special ones in their hearts, why is it that they're still not happy? It's because loving someone doesn't mean having them with you. Most of the people nowadays experiences the so-called M.U or Mag-isang Umiibig (unrequited love). Of all the bitter I've known personally, this have been the reason behind their grief. So for those who have their loved ones sticking around them, you're fortunate. Don't take them for granted. It's not usual these days that your love loves you back, and you have them. 

So back to the question, what's wrong with being single .. yeah, what's so wrong about that? What has it that makes people so bitter as the Heart's Day is coming? 

Valentines day is not just for lovers, it's for everyone who knows how to love -- God, their family, friends and even themselves. You don't have to worry about not having a date because it's not the essence of it. If we only knew what Valentine's is all about, then no one would bother kill himself for not having someone with him on that big deal day.

Besides, whether it's Valentine's Day or not, being single isn't and will never be a crime. Actually, you're fortunate if you're one. If you're single, you are free to do anything you want to do. Your schedule is not limited to the person obsessed  to you. Also, you have no commitment with anyone else, which means that you could flirt not just to only one but with anyone, without someone who hinders you to do so. Another important thing, being single saves a lot of money. I swear, this is so true (from my own personal experience). But then, being single doesn't guarantee being away from hurt.

The bottom line is, not being in a relationship doesn't make you look poor and pathetic. It's all in the mind. If you pity yourself for it, feeling bad is your fault. It doesn't have to be a big deal because someday, somehow, you'd surely find the one that God has perfectly planned for you. Someone who would treat you good and would have a date with you not just during Valentine's Day, but .. every single day. :))))

I'd love to be kissed in a library. ♥

ALWAYS.

My true Valentine -- LORD. :))

Mga inspiring words lang naman ni Mama today. :)))

"Kung mai-inlove ka, dun sa lalaking alam mong ikaw lang ..."

"Wag dun sa may sabit .. "

I love you for who you are. ♥

Pa-humble e.

true ♥

Iniisip mo ba ko hanggang sa pagtulog mo? :))))))

It took me a lot of time and courage to wait for someone like you. Now that I have you as my friend, I assure you that leaving you will never be a choice in my life. It would be impossible to forget you, for everything around me reminds me of you. I hope, you won't forget me too. :) Thank God I found you!

 

 

that's why I like you . .. :)

Eh, kayo na sweet.